I'm sure by now you are tired of my highly depressing posts. I know I am, but my life is what it is.
So I talked to my RE on the phone yesterday. I didn't have the guts to scream all of my anger at her because I'm pretty sure that when I am comfortable enough to get a transfer, I will need her help. However, we did discuss my concerns.
She and my husband thought I planned to quit altogether. I would never give up on my five em-babies, even though they are only essentially clumps of cells. I am not quitting. I just can't pretend that my uterus is rolling out the welcome mat for them, when it really isn't.
The doctor said she discussed my case with a doctor friend of hers. They both agreed that I don't have fibroids in the "baby cavity," but the doctor friend was concerned that the bevy of fibroids in the other parts of my uterus could cause a baby-threatening early birth.
I am the product of pre-term labor, as is my beloved cousin. I was born four pounds and spent about a month in the NICU. In fact, they accidentally let me out early. To make up for it, they sent a nurse to my house to check on me everyday. They are certainly lucky that my mother wasn't litigious and only cared about having her baby home and healthy.
My cousin on the other hand, was barely two pounds. There was no way he could be mistakenly released. They told my Auntie to prepare for his death. But he is a fighter and survived. He spent most of my childhood getting on my last damn nerve:-) To this day, he goes out of his way to make sure I am ok. You would think he was the big cousin:-)
Our births are the reason I have to get more questions answered. I have to know what to expect. I know no one can predict the outcome, but I have to properly prepare. Guys, I wasn't prepared for that IUI. She didn't tell me about my poor egg quality until after it failed. My hopes were so high that when I got an official negative result, I didn't know...it felt like something died. It was a devastation I wasn't prepared for. I can't let that happen to me again. More importantly, I'm not going to put an embryo in my uterus as a little test. I am not a science experiment, nor are my embryos (ok, maybe we are.)
With all of that said, I plan to go see a doctor who specializes in ovarian cancer. I do not have cancer and I hope I never have it. However, his expertise in fighting ovarian cancer makes him a bit of an expert when it comes to fibroids and their possible impact on pregnancy. We are hoping that he will be able to give an unbiased opinion of what my uterus is capable of doing.
While I am pretty mad at God, I'm still praying every night and hoping for the best. I'll keep taking my supplements and going to acupuncture. This will give me a break from those strong hormones and hopefully give my body a chance to return to itself for a moment. I want to start Insanity cuz I am a bit fat at the moment, but I don't know if I have the balls for that right now.